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Keeping Traditions Alive with Three Kings Day

Feliz Día de los Reyes Magos! Happy Three Kings Day!

I love my little island, Puerto Rico. I love all of my culture’s different nuances so much that I distinctively remember deciding after visiting family one summer as a college student that although I now lived in the U.S., I would find and marry a suitable Puerto Rican man just so that my children could enjoy everything I loved about our music, food and traditions.

Sure enough, three years later I married my husband and while he is wonderful in many ways, he is not Puerto Rican. He does speak enough Spanish to engage in conversation with my two abuelitas, and can salsa way better than my dad can. Don’t get me wrong, it’s fun to raise our kids in a bi-cultural family, but it also makes it challenging to pass down certain traditions I cherish. But it recently dawned on me that if I don’t do it, nobody else will. Yes, I know, a big “Duh!” moment.

So 2014 is the year. I am determined to teach my kids more of about their heritage and my island’s history. What better way to start off my new resolution than with El Día de los Reyes Magos, Three Kings Day. In Puerto Rico, Christmas celebrations don’t end until after January 6th, which is why my house is the only one on my street that still has Christmas lights on. I remember when I was a little girl, gathering grass in my little shoe box and leaving it under my bed so that when the Three Wise Men came to visit at night on their way to visit Baby Jesus, they’d have grass for their camels and in return leave a token of appreciation, ideally in the form of a really cool gift.

Sunday night, Three Kings Day Eve, we rounded up some shoe boxes from around the house and got working on filling them up with grass. Put them under their beds, and then they went to sleep anxiously waiting for morning so they could open presents.


Getting grass for Three Kings Day
Getting grass for Three Kings Day


Keeping this tradition is challenging in the U.S. because the holidays are “over” and school and work are in full swing. It was totally worth it though, even if we had to rush to get ready for school.

In Puerto Rico, and many Latin American countries, January 6th is filled with family gatherings and fancy dinners just like Christmas Day is over here. A special food many make is the Rosca de Reyes. Now, I confess, I actually don’t remember eating this as a little girl, but Abuela did confirm that we had them growing up. (Side note: I have a horrible memory!)

This year I tried making my first ever “rosca.” I call it “rosca” because the real thing is very elaborate made of bread and includes dried fruit, which my picky kids won’t eat. So I made a scaled-down, kid-friendly version — instead of bread I made it into a cake, and substituted the dried fruit for gummy bunnies. OH, and of course it was “special” – gluten-free, egg-free, dairy-free, nut-free and soy-free. Unfortunately for me, it was NOT fat-free nor sugar-free. And for the skeptics out there, it tasted pretty good. To see a picture and recipes of the real thing, check out Happy Día de Reyes! at Mamá Latina Tips.


My special ingredients.


Donnatello, from Ninja Turtles, is guarding my "Rosca" de Reyes
Donnatello, from Ninja Turtles, is guarding my “Rosca” de Reyes












After dinner, I held the “rosca” hostage until we sat down and read the Bible story of the three wise men.


Super Daddy reading the story from the Bible.








The boys being oh so attentive.
The boys being oh so attentive.







Black Ninja was King Herod here. Apparently King Herod is not usually in most Nativity Scenes.
Black Ninja was King Herod here. Apparently King Herod is not usually included in most Nativity Scenes, so we got creative.









My 3yo crying because he couldn't play with the wise man his brother had already claimed as his. (There's always something, no?)
My 3yo crying because he couldn’t play with the wise man his brother had already claimed as his. (There’s always something, no?)








Finally enjoying our "rosca!"
Finally enjoying our “rosca!”







No holiday is complete without family. My mom and Abuela came by afterwards to give gifts to the kids.

What?!? Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle shirt!

What?!? Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle shirt!










Baby M smiling at her great-grandma!
Baby M smiling at her great-grandma!








I’m hoping we can continue doing this tradition every year, and one day, I’ll be the “Abuela” coming to bring presents to her grandkids on Three Kings Day. I’m sure by then, I will have mastered the real rosca!

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  • Reply Guadalupe


    January 8, 2014 at 8:08 pm
  • Reply Brandy

    you are awesome!! I really enjoyed reading this…I am glad you are doing your blog 🙂
    HEY and I learned something too double bonus 🙂

    January 9, 2014 at 12:29 am
    • Reply Nermarí

      Thanks Brandy! Thanks for coming on by!

      January 13, 2014 at 4:12 pm
  • Reply Paige Kellerman

    My family always celebrated Three Kings, growing up. I plan on doing the same with my little ones….:)

    January 13, 2014 at 9:08 am
    • Reply Nermarí

      Thanks for stopping by! How did your parents celebrate it? I hope my kids do once they have their own families.

      January 13, 2014 at 4:08 pm

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